When regular couples are looking to ramp things up in their intimate lives, they will often take a page from the kink handbook. It makes sense after all kinky people have a ton of fun in the bedroom. If your sex life is already spicy, how do you turn things up a notch? Here are a few suggestions:
Get out of the bedroom! At the very least get out of your bedroom. You do it all of the time there. You see it everyday. You see those same sheets folded the same way and it suggests to you that the same old thing should happen. Yes it's wonderful, but it's also the same place you've been doing it the same way for the past six years. The kids are up the hallway every night and your neighbors snicker every time you take out the trash. Take your partner to the four star hotel off the interstate with the continental breakfast.
Perform in front of an audience. There are play parties and dungeons all over the country. If you look around you can probably find one right in your backyard. Pack your toy bag and join your fellow kinksters. Even if you don't play in public your first night out you've added a metric to that kinky thing you do. The sights and sounds alone can be arousing. If you do get to have a public S&M scene putting on a show can be an adrenaline rush, even a natural high. You can ride that high for hours or days keeping your baseline at home on a higher level.
What are some of the ways you've flipped the kinky script with your partner?